Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Top reasons we sabotage first dates or a relationship


Top reasons we sabotage first dates or a relationship
1.     Fear

We want someone in our life but we also do not wish to be hurt, scammed, or dumped so we are in the wrong frame of mind from the first moment we meet someone in person therefore we don’t get past the first date.
 
2.     Judgment

We judge the next possible life partner by previous partners who didn’t work out, whether their fault or our own. Those who can’t forget their past failed relationships for the right reason unconsciously set the first date up for failure with someone new.
 
3.     Independence

We are afraid we may have to give up some or all of our independence. This is especially true for women.
 
4.     Habits

We aren’t willing to give up any possibly offensive (to others) habit(s), like smoking tobacco, we have formed while single or over our lifetime even if it means losing or missing out on our true soul mate.
 
5.     Sharing (Selfishness)

Some of us are just not willing to share our ‘stuff’ or maybe anything else we consider our ‘own’ property or personal space. ANY relationship is about 'sharing' even if it's just a roommate or co-driver situation.
 
6.     Money

Some people today live by the rule, “What’s yours is yours and what’s mine is mine”. Others hold to “What’s yours is mine and what’s mine is mine”. So many of us are tight fisted with our money and then there are those who are too liberal. An otherwise perfectly matched union can be separated off and on or permanently due to money issues.

(Borrowed comment)
By recognizing the cycle of destruction in sabotaging relationships, we can identify the problem, rather than the symptom, and begin to move forward. It is possible to have a healthy, happy relationship.

(My conclusion)
Compromise is not an easy task for some people but if we are not willing to compromise, we are likely going to either live alone forever or have failed relationships, one after the other. Some people end up getting a pet and stop trying to have a human relationship. And there are people who simply love themselves so much they have decided to remain single. It is possible for each of us to have a true "soul mate" relationship while retaining and holding onto our own identity, self respect and space.
 
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Sunday, January 20, 2013

The Obama Machine Will Live On


New Face Of Lobbyist?
OBama’s 2012 campaign organizer and workers officially launched a 501 C-4 non-profit organization today (Under that tax code, 501[c][4] groups are not required to disclose contributors). Their agenda is to help carry through and support the president’s initiatives. Obama once called Super PACs, many of which are connected to 501(c)4 groups “a threat to democracy and in light of Obama’s claims that lobbyists should be abolished he is 100% all in for his own lobbying 501 C-4 non-profit group.

When one of the spokespersons for the unions made the statement that this time they would not only get him re-elected but would follow up with real support throughout this 2nd term, he wasn’t kidding. List of Labor Unions helping fund the multi-million dollar inaugural celebration Mon, Jan 21, 2013.

Through this 'non-profit organization', Obama and the First Lady, Michelle, will thrive quite well long into the future after his 2nd term is over. If it were not for the 22nd Amendment after Roosevelt's presidency (Roosevelt held 3 terms) there is no doubt that Obama would be elected at least once more in 2016 for a 3rd term.

Roosevelt was also a part of the Chicago machine and though he did some great things for America, he also unleashed hardships on a war torn nation that left a great number of Americans in poverty and ruin. In fact if you read up on Roosevelt you’ll find remarkable similarities between FDR and Barack H Obama. Both men usually get exactly what they want and have their own hides covered even if everyone else is left high and dry.

The report below is Copied from today’s LA Times online news reports:

Seeking to harness Obama's campaign resources for a second term
January 17, 2013
|By Matea Gold, Los Angeles Time

An ambitious new political organization is being built out of the machine that propelled him back into office, with the hope of supporting his policy objectives.

President Obama's reelection campaign is reinventing itself as… (Brendan Smialowski, AFP/Getty…)
WASHINGTON — As he launches his second term, President Obama may get help from an ambitious new political organization being built out of his reelection campaign, a group that could reshape how future presidents harness supporters to press their White House agendas.

Run by former Obama campaign officials, the advocacy group will seek to leverage the campaign's sophisticated organizing tools and rich voter database to support the president's policy objectives, including raising the debt ceiling, gun control and immigration reform.
If it is able to sustain the passion that propelled Obama twice into the White House, the pro-Obama group may outstrip the role played by traditional interest groups, from organized labor to the environmental movement, and could form an independent power base outside the White House and the Democratic Party.
      
     "This just dwarfs any part of the Democratic coalition," said Democratic strategist Joe Trippi. "This is the biggest leg of the stool. There are really significant implications in terms of the permanent power center within the party."

Although details of the group's structure — and its name — may be released Friday, the launch is set for Sunday, when 4,000 former campaign staff and volunteers are expected at a Washington hotel for a daylong event dubbed the Obama Campaign Legacy Conference. Thousands of supporters are expected to watch online.
Even before its launch, Republicans described the group's resources as a threat.

    "Obama, who's not going to be running for re-election, has an enormous database, a lot of political muscle, a machine, that I believe he intends to focus squarely on the House," Rep. Greg Walden (R-Ore.), chairman of the National Republican Congressional Committee, told reporters Thursday at the House Republican Conference retreat in Williamsburg, Va. "So we have our work cut out for us."

A similar effort fizzled after Obama first won the White House. In 2009, Obama campaign organizers also hoped to use its database, millions of email addresses and a corps of trained operatives to help push White House goals. But Organizing for America — then housed within the Democratic National Committee — played a limited role during the bitter debate over Obama's healthcare overhaul, which barely squeaked through Congress.
Obama's volunteer network was remobilized in the 2012 race, when the campaign used social media and other technology to connect supporters to their neighbors and friends. Supporters donated a record $1.1 billion — including $216 million in contributions of $200 or less, according to the nonpartisan Campaign Finance Institute.

Leadership for the new group has not been announced, but former Obama campaign manager Jim Messina and several other former campaign operatives are expected to play key roles. On Thursday, Messina sent out an email blast to Obama campaign supporters urging them to back the White House gun policy proposals.
Making the leap from a campaign built around the singular goal to one with a broader — and ongoing — mission is no easy task. [end LA Times article]

If this all seems a little scary to you then you are not alone!
This blog article written and posted by:

Marge Bailey/Blog Administrator/Contributing Writer
Political Affiliation: Independent

 

 

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Obama Care - The TRUTH??

Chris Conover
Chris Conover, Contributor
I explode myths that pervade health policy debates.             

Young People Under Obamacare: Cash Cow For Older Workers             


It’s official: the health care law will unduly stick it to young Americans by making them pay far higher premiums starting January 1, 2014.[1] New rules announced this month are even worse than expected when it comes to shoveling an unfair burden onto our nation’s youth. Moreover, they also perversely increase the incentives of young people to remain uninsured.
The newly announced rules limit insurers to charge their oldest customers no more than three times as much as younger ones. As shown in the following chart based on estimates by international management consulting firm Oliver Wyman, the rule will force insurers to hike rates for 18- to 24-year-olds by 45 percent even as rates for those 60 and older drop by 13 percent in most states.[2] That means a 22-year-old waitress paying $2,068 for her health insurance will have to fork over $3,000 when Obamacare takes effect.[3] And these figures even underestimate the actual impact.

Analysts based these estimates on average premiums for 5-year age groups (i.e. 55-59, 60-64, etc.). However, the new rules say that the restriction must apply to 1-year age groups (i.e. 25, 26, 27, etc.). Since health spending rises steadily by age—about 3.5 percent per year between 25 to 64—expected spending for 64 year-olds is higher than for the 60-64 year-old age group as a whole. That means insurance companies will have to charge 18-year-olds at least 10 percent more using the 1-year age groups to ensure their premiums fall within the mandated range of those of 64 year-olds.

The real-world consequence of this regulatory misjudgment is that young people will have an even greater economic incentive to simply pay the $695 annual penalty for not having coverage and wait until they are sick before they purchase it. [4] In short, it is now even more likely that Obamacare will amplify the perverse incentives for “free-riding” that it was intended to counter.
Clearly, until we observe actual behavior next January, we won’t know precisely how large an adverse selection problem has been unnecessarily created by these new rules. But what we can say for certain is that for young adults who elect to have health coverage, it will be way more expensive next year than it is today.

Is this fair? Ask the typical 20-24 year-old—whose median weekly earnings are $461—whether it’s fair to be asked to pay 50 percent higher premiums so that workers age 55-64—whose median weekly earnings are $887—can pay lower premiums. Think about that. The median earnings for older workers are $420 a week more than those of younger workers, or roughly $20,000 more a year. How is mandating a price break on health insurance for this far higher income group at the expense of the lower income group possibly fair?

The difference in mean health spending for those age 45-64 and those age 18-24 is a mere $4,100—less than $350 a month.[3] In short, the group benefiting from this transfer earns enough extra in a single week to cover the expense of their high health insurance premiums. I’m in the age category that would benefit from this type of transfer, yet even I can see how grossly unfair it is to the typical young worker.

As well, this unnecessary and undesirable feature of Obamacare is complicating discussions about how to reform Medicare. One very logical tweak to the program is to raise the age of eligibility to age 67 (so that it matches the eligibility age used for Social Security). After all, life expectancy at age 65 has risen by 4.5 years since Medicare’s inception. But because of the restrictions placed on premiums under Obamacare, such a simple change would require the premiums of young adults obtaining coverage through the exchanges to increase by at least eight percent, according to a Kaiser Family Foundation study.

This is what comes of “taxation by regulation.” If older people truly are deserving of help in paying for their premiums, then we should be relying on honest and open subsidies to assist them. This would permit the burden to be borne by society in general in a fashion that we can agree is distributionally fair. In contrast, loading all of these generational cross-subsidies onto young people is manifestly unfair. When we see “Occupy Obamacare” protests, we’ll know that young people have finally figured this out.

Footnotes

[1] Even enthusiastic proponents of the law such as Washington and Lee University professor Timothy Jost, have acknowledged that age rating compression “is going to force younger people to pay more in the individual market as older individuals pay less.”

[2] Many states already place restrictions on age rating in the individual insurance market (as codified in the Oliver Wyman report), but use a much more generous 5:1 ratio, which does not distort pricing nearly as much given that there is a 6:1 ratio of spending for older compared to younger individuals. In an unregulated market, we would expect premiums to mirror the 6:1 ratio of expected spending for these two groups so that each age cohort effectively self-financed its own spending, just as we observe in markets for life insurance, long term care insurance and auto insurance. The chart shown shows the increase in rates required for each age category to move from a 5:1 maximum ratio to a far more restrictive 3:1 ratio.

[3] These are illustrative figures. The CBO projects that in 2016, the average premium in the individual market under Obamacare will be $5,800 ($300 more than without Obamacare). The age rating rules will allow this premium to be lower for the youngest subscribers so long as their premium is no less than one third the amount charged to the oldest subscribers. Thus, one can imagine a plan that charges $3,000 for its youngest subscribers and $9,000 for its oldest, averaging $5,800. But the Wyman figures imply that without Obamacare, a $3,000 policy would have cost a young subscriber only $2,068 in the current market.

[4] The penalty starts at only $95 in 2014, growing to $325 in 2015 and $695 in 2016, after which the penalty will be adjusted for cost-of-living increases (just as Social Security payments are). Obviously, the incentives to simply pay the penalty rather than spend thousands of dollars are coverage are even greater in 2014 and 2015, when the dollar penalty is relatively smaller.

[5] These are based on 2010 data from the Medical Expenditure Panel Survey, which are the latest available. Mean spending for age 18-24 was $1642, compared to $5737 for those age 45-64. Unfortunately, there is no more fine-grained age breakdown reported. However, average spending for those 65-90 is only $9,896, so the difference in spending between the oldest and youngest workers cannot possibly exceed $7,300.

OpEd Source: Chris Conover

Comments by Marge:

AARP suppored Obama to get elected, twice and Obama care and just this month their monthly magazine reported on the high costs to seniors who sign up for Medicare and for incomes lower tan $22k, also Medicaid. The article reports how much money seniors will most likely spend before their demise. It's outragious and not affordable for 99% of us. AARP seems to be walking back their glowing support of 'all things Obama'. Take a moment and read AARP's January edition, starting on page 16.

Congresswoman Jan Schakowsky, a Democrat, gives her facts as she knows them, about older Americans and what The Affordable Care Act will do and is doing for those 65 and over. According to AARP and many other sources, she doesn't have her facts straight. However, you read it and you decide what is truth and what is fact.  CLICK to open the Schakowshy PDF file.

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Fiscal Cliff Hangover?

So what did the government get done yesterday? Some Both sides of the asile claim it's a bandaid and it's not goign to solve much or even begin to touch the deficit... This is taken from a memo sent out by.....

David Plouffe
Senior Advisor
The White House

Graphic: Seven things you need to know about this tax deal